Afraid to move forward on the next big thing in your life because you’re not sure how you’ll afford it, or what it would do to your monthly budget? Let me show you how to prepare for it financially so you can go onto the next big thing in your life with confidence.
Ready (you think) to move onto the next big thing in your life? You know, purchasing a new home, combining households, having a baby, or any other utterly life-changing event.
Or have you got a lot of mental obstacles built around this next move because it seems financially unattainable?
The fact is, you can usually figure out whether or not you can afford the purchase price of the next big move in your life. And not just the purchase price, but also the monthly costs that will be introduced into your life as well as a result of the purchase.The fact is, you can usually figure out whether or not you can afford the purchase price of the… Click To Tweet
I mean a new home has an asking price and you can either save up for that amount and/or get a mortgage for the rest or not. But what about the revolving monthly costs? Can your budget and cash flow absorb the extra costs (without making you sorry you did it because you can’t afford the rest of your life anymore)?
That’s what we’ve got to find out to make sure you don’t get stuck in a sucky situation.
Foolproof Step #1: Conduct Some Research
Ask yourself this question: what are the extra revolving monthly costs involved with this next big thing in your life?
Then write down your answers.
For example, with a new baby, you will have medical costs, supplies, a health insurance premium increase, etc. If you’re looking to purchase a new home, you’ll need homeowner’s insurance, property taxes, repair money, etc.
Foolproof Step #2: Set Up an Imaginary Budget
Research an approximate price for each of the revolving monthly items on your list, and write that amount next to the item. Add up everything to get a figure for how much extra per month you will need to have in order to afford your purchase.
This is the amount you need to test out.
Foolproof Step #3: Test it Out for a Few Months
You now want to put a stress-test on your finances to see if you can do it (and do it at a level where you’re comfortable). So each month for the next several months you need to set aside that figure from Step #2 into a savings account as if you were already paying those costs.
Bonus benefit to doing this money stress test: you’re simultaneously saving up towards the purchase price!
I would do this for at least three months to really get a sense of how it would be like living under this new cash flow strain.
After a few months of this, assess where you are. If you have a partner, talk to them about their experience. How’s it been? Did things work smoothly, or did you feel constrained? If you feel constrained, are there ways you can ease that (such as earning more money or shopping around better for greater deals)?
Bonus Foolproof Step #4: Another Stress Test
Technically, you’re finished (and way ahead of the game) if you did those three last steps.
But I want you to do one more thing because it’s what I would do if my own money was on the line. Run a few different scenarios. So how would any of the following change how you could weather this next financial step:
- Losing one Income: going down from two incomes to one income (due to a layoff, one parent staying home, etc.), or with one partner having maternity leave pay only for X amount of months
- Holding Two Mortgages: Being unable to sell your old home for several months before purchasing your new home and taking on a new mortgage. How would you fare then?
I would love to know what your next big thing is, other stress tests you’ve put on your money scenarios, or stress tests you’ve experienced hands-on in the past. Who knows, you might help someone else out who is thinking about doing what you’ve already done.