Hoping to spend the day with Mom…but coming up short with cash? Here are 19 cheap mother-daughter day ideas (for adults).
You're looking for cheap Mother Day ideas to celebrate your mother…but you don't want to look cheap, right?
Not a problem.
I've got loads of ways for you to spend time together with Mom to grow your relationship (and preserve your wallet).
Before we get started with Mother-Daughter adult date event ideas, let me show you the simple way you'll know you've picked the right activity.
How to Pick Mother Daughter Activities – It’s Simple
If you’re ever stuck wondering what you can do for your Mom on a mother-daughter day together, then you’re in the right place.
The answer is always quite simple.
Do something that:
- Helps her in some way
- Communicates your appreciation for her in some way
- Gives the two of you more time to spend together
- Creates a memory
As long as what you choose from the list below covers one or more of these characteristics? Then you’ll be honoring your mother and bringing a smile to her face.
Which is all you need to do!
Let’s jump into all those cheap and fun ideas.
Psst: if you're looking for a gift to give on top of doing something for Mom? Then check out my 41 inexpensive Mother's Day gift ideas. All gifts are between $5 and $20.
Mother Daughter Activities Ideas for Adults
Let's start off with mom-daughter day adult activities at home.
Pssst: These are also the perfect Mother's Day ideas on a budget.
1. Go Through 40 Days of Prayer Series Together
Our church went through the 40 Days of Prayer series (by Rick Warren, author of The Purpose-Driven Life) together last year, and it was fabulous.
In fact, it was SO good, that I bought two copies of the book for my grandmother so that she could choose someone to go through the series together with her.
You can do this series with anyone, so why not pick your mother? Gift her a copy of the book on Mother’s Day, get one for yourself, and either meet up weekly to watch a video (there are 8 videos that go along with the book), or watch apart and text/talk/FaceTime about it over the next six weeks.
2. Take Your Mother Out to a Food Truck
Check out RoamingHunger.com to find out where and which food trucks will be around your home or your mother’s for your mother-daughter day.
This is a great way to take her out for some gourmet and exciting food choices, but without having to pay a big tip!
3. Run a 5K Together
What I love about this idea – other than the fact that it gets you both exercising – is that you’ll need to train a bit ahead of time.
In other words, you could train together and spend even more time with each other rather than just a one-off event.
Use this race finder tool to find races in your part of the country.
4. Volunteer Together
Not only is this a free activity, but you’ll both get a lot out of the experience. If you’ve never volunteered with your Mom before, then you’ll get to see her in a whole new light. Ask if there's a volunteer activity at the church she goes to, or a community organization that she's interested in.
OR, do your own search and come up with a volunteer activity the two of you can get behind and do together.
Check out my article on 27 ways to volunteer from home.
5. Go to the Gym Together
Does one of you have a gym membership? Meet up for a gym workout date with your Mom.
Next up, let me show you some tricks on how to find events in your own area that are free.
How to Find Free Things to Do on Mother-Daughter Day “Near Me”
I’ve got a few tricks and things to do to find free things to do on your day with Mom.
Trick #1: Filter Eventbrite Right
Mothers loooovvvveee it when their children voluntarily spend time with them. I’m a Mom, so I can say this!
Did you know that you can find FREE events to attend on Eventbrite.com? Let me show you how to uncover some gems for your mother.
Just click “more filters”, then “Any Price”, and select “free”.
Trick #2: Search Using the Right Phrase
When searching on Google for free things to do near you, try any of the following phrases (fill in your area of the country where you see an underline):
- “Your local area+ free things to do”
- “Your local area+ free Mother’s Day events”
- “Your local area+ discount for residents”
Trick #3: Search Your Local Library’s Bulletin Board
Local libraries can be treasure-troves for free events being held both at the library, or within the community.
Either go into your library and look at their fliers/bulletin board area, or look on their events calendar online and see what upcoming events you might want to take Mom to.
For example, our library has held free genealogy research classes, which would be a perfect Mom-Daughter date!
Trick #4: Check Out Places with Known Free Classes
Places like Michael's craft store and Joann's Fabric store regularly offer free classes you can take your mother to.
What Can Moms and Daughters Do Together? Free Options.
When you have no money but you really want to show Mom how much she means to you, then you need to get creative.
Creative with your time, your talents, and with what you consider a “gift”.
1. Offer Your Services to Make Mom’s Life Easier
Is there something that you do that your mother could benefit from (or has hinted she would like help with)?
For example, my husband, Paul, works in IT and could offer to clean up his mother’s computer for her.
Perhaps Mom needs help with downloading apps or music. Gutters need cleaned, cars need washed, oil needs to be changed, and I’m sure your Mom has a thing or two she would love some help with.
Better yet, make her a pitcher of iced tea and let her relax while you knock a few things off of her to-do list.
Bonus: Tell her ahead of time to write you a honey-do list, then tell her you’ll come over for 3 hours or so on X date to knock them out.
2. Present her with Free Genealogy Research
Did you know there are totally free genealogy websites? You can use them to conduct some genealogy research into your mother’s side of the family and uncover a few nuggets to share with her.
Pssst: here are some genealogy project ideas for how to present the information to her.
3. Do a Mother’s Day Countdown
The Dating Divas came up with an awesome Mother’s Day gift – a Mother’s Day Countdown. Grab your free printables, and show your Mom how much she means to you for 7 days (one week) leading up to the big day (all while doing things for her that are almost entirely free – now that fits any budget!).
Also, here’s free printables for a Mother’s Day Eve tradition you can introduce to your family!
4. Give her Mother’s Day Coupons
Print out these adorable Mother’s Day coupons, and assemble. Would be a perfect pairing with breakfast in bed!
5. Help Your Kids Fill Out a SuperMom Letter
Could your mother (or your wife) use a little appreciation? Here’s a free SuperMom Letter printable you can help the kids fill in.
Even More Cheap Things to Do for Mother-Daughter Date Day
Sometimes what we want to give loved ones cannot come close to what we can actually afford to give them.
Because there is pressure from the media, retailers, and other people to try and express all of this emotion towards others in a financial way, we may purchase a gift that is over our budget or fail to give anything at all since there is such a huge gap between what we want to give and what we can give.
While it would be nice to really treat our mothers to something wonderful — brunch or afternoon tea at a restaurant — it is not always feasible to do so.
Don’t fret. I’ve got inexpensive mother daughter activities that will make. her. day.
Activity #1: Wildflower Walk
Does your mother enjoy the outdoors? Grab a local wildflower or wildlife book from your library, and take her on a wildflower walk where you guys talk and identify wildflowers together.
Activity #2: Attend Church with Her
Does your Mother attend a church? Do you know how much it would make her day to have her son or daughter (and their families) attend with her?
Bonus: many churches have breakfast after the service; you might ask your mother about this, and offer to bring in a potluck breakfast dish to have food with her and her friends.
Activity #3: Dinner and a Movie…at Your Home
Parents love to be invited over to their kid’s homes (especially when there’s grandkids!). You can honor your mother by inviting her to your house for a home-cooked meal with your family, and then a family movie afterwards. Set up a popcorn bar, or an ice-cream bar, to make it even more special.
Activity #4: Invite Her Out for Dessert
There are some pretty snazzy dessert locations out there. The great thing is, you’re still taking your mother out, it’s just for a lot cheaper. Even better? These dessert places are very boutique-like, so it doesn’t FEEL like it’s a cheap way to take your mother out.
Let me give you some examples to look for:
- Chocolate Bar
- Edible Cookie Dough Boutiques
- Cupcake Bakeries with seating
Activity #5: Tea and Treats with the Grand Kids
Got a cake plate (or you can make your own)? Print out a free tea and treats printable invitation, and give it to your mother. Pick up some tea from the grocery store, as well as ingredients to make some tea-party-worthy treats, like:
- Strawberry Chicken Salad Tea Sandwiches
- Cucumber Tea Sandwiches with Herb Aioli
- Lemon High Tea Cookies
What do I hope you'll get from this article, besides some killer mother daughter day ideas for adults? That you can spend time together with your mother on any budget…even if that budget is $0.